Hi Chi.. (032709)

Despite the title of this article, I have not been studying the Chinese language. Thought, I have no opposition to that, that is not really what this is about. This article is intended to shed some light on the concept of Hi Chi. Now, I have a girlfriend who is a Hi Chi master and I expect that she will get to writing any day now and publish that damn book so the rest of us can catch up. But this brief note is my 2 cents in a thousand dollar concept. Hi Chi is in reference to the Chi factor associated with sexuality and its ability to generate change on the field of relationships. Some of us squander our Hi Chi because we don't understand the appropriate dispensation of it or because we fear it. A lack of training and honest dialog leaves many woman at a lost when it comes to wielding the power of the chi. I know some of you have seen a woman with a brother and wondered what the f*&k she did to get him. "Cause she ain't fly" you might say. But the truth is she has mastered the Hi Chi. The hot factor associated with femaleness and femininity.
In real time, most women have a certain Hi IQ. The Hi IQ is related to the level of self mastery she is able to exert over her self. Contrary to popular opinion, women do enjoy sex! We crave it! When its good we are often interested in continuing to participate for long, long period of time. However, many desire a certain amount of consistency and stability in order to truly enjoy all activities. To create this scenario requires discipline. Self discipline. Not control over ya man, but ova ya self!
Often times, we want a certain experience with brothas but we don't put in the appropriate study time to understand them or our selves. Then when we learn the way to create reality, we don't use it because we disagree with the way things work. So we keep doing what we do, and getting what we get. And we don't move forward. We lack the peace associated with self-mastery and allow ourselves to be moved off our center.

Ok, ok, ok, enough of that philosophical talk. Let me get to the point. Though I have no opposition to women and men finding sexual satisfaction, the energy released during the sexual act is the same energy used in the creation process. The very same energy that God (with a big G) used to create the universe and all that is in it. So, when people crave that interaction, I say, Yeah! Its natural and healthy to crave it. When there is not desire for it, that usually means that something is out of whack. (thus the creation of ED medications). BUT, energy flow follows rules. Like it or not.

Imagine creating a model plan. Does it require the same amount of materials and/or energy as creating a Boeing 747? Nope. It doesn't. So when creating, be mindful of how you use your energy. Lately, I have been saving my Chi force. Not engaging physically. I have had to exercise discipline. (refer to article on Fame) Though the craving is there. I am creating something bigger now than just a temporary feeling. I am using this energy to create a house, furniture, and new friends. I have found that more men are interested in me when I harness my chi. Or maybe I feel more confident. Confident enough to say no to what I do not want. Confident and disciplined enough to wait. I am at peace with going out by my self or with my girl friends or even guy friends. I am also working out. Using the same chi force to create the body that I always want and choose for myself.

You know, its just like when athletes train. Real athletes know that you should not have sex before the big game or the big fight. They know that somehow it effects your performance. This is no secret. (usually the sex takes place after the game...:-) Anyway, this same thing can be applied to other areas of life. You've heard it all before don't be afraid to try it. Be sure to spend time enriching your own life. Give yourself the things you desire from others and give to others what you desire. This will free up your energy. I realized that when every I stop having sex, there are so many more opportunities for me. (not just for sex, though that is included, but also for other things that I love). More men want to date me and other goals become reality.

Ladies, (and gents) Just stop sex for 3 months and see what you can do with that energy. Not as an imposition on your self but as a personal choice. Just see what can come of it. I have some things that are coming through. I will let you know once I have completed the process. But anyway, I am really feeling this process and myself. I know the discipline will pay off.